The children need as much consistency as possible.
Having both parents in their lives Every week would seem to be the better of the 2 options proposed.
Will you miss out on alot of potential weekend fin with them if your S accepts the Th through Su option?
Will the children feel abandoned when your S has to get someone else to watch them when there are plans that do not include the children?
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012