Well this is interesting. No I'm not dating. I'm still committed to saving my M.
But I won't deny this has spark my interest. I think it all depends. If my wife leaves me and I know she will pursue OM, I think I would. I believe she will not respect me if I wait around for her to turn around and come back after she lives a life with OM.
I think at that point the marriage becomes just a piece of paper. Now, would I be ready for intimacy and relationship, I honestly don't think so. But going out to dinners, movies, etc. I think will be good for me rather than sulking the sitch. I will be honest though and if I'm not ready for commitment I will let that person know upfront that I just want to get out and enjoy a company.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
