Just wanted to touch base and check in with everyone to see how their Thanksgiving went...
mine was a little on the dramatic side, I must admit. My husband didn't come home the night prior, so I went to the other woman's house at 3am and moved his car a few blocks down the road, I thought it was funny, him not so much. I left and went home, was finally asleep, and she texts me "Maybe if you treated your husband better he wouldn't be here with me" I flipped, I went back to her house and sat on our car- she asked me to leave, I said I wasn't on her property, I was on my car- my property. Eventually I went home and calmed down, and my husband came and we faught- but it was an eye opener for me anyway, that she seems to have this control on him.
He has moved back home, for now, but hs been in his own room and taking his space and time. Its been hard, because somedays he acts like my friend, or like he loves me, and other days he acts like we are strangers.
The other woman is supposedly leaving and moving to Colorado on January 20th, only time will tell if this is true or not. I am just working on myself and we both agree we don't want to be divorced, but need our time, to hopefully work on our marriage when the time is right. He is searching for a job, and looking for a counselor and has agreed to talk to my therapists with me.
That is it for now- just wanted to check in, the holidays are definitely a lot harder than I anticipated.
But I am hanging in there.
-Becca
M-28 H-28 M-9 1/2 years T- 12 years PA- 01/02/12 (still going on)
