I think it's b/c you get dressed up and go out without her. GAL makes you less boring, in her opinion. I wouldn't say her A is over. She may be just checking to see if she can still work her little magic with you, IDK. But I don't think she's serious about the M. Maybe I misinterpret your writing.
I hope she has to work hard to get you back. If she can do it by simply changing her mind, then it won't last a month, if that long. I'm glad you didn't get all goosy and kept your cool....and I really glad you informed her there would be work to do. That was a good, strong step!
She seemed to be teasing, IMO. She's talking about how long it's been since ML, and she's cuddling up next to you and running her hands over you.....but once in bed she gives you a quick kiss and turns over to go to sleep. Maybe I'm being negative. Maybe she's doing baby-steps? No......I think she's teasing.
Stay strong my friend, and don't make the sex come too easy for her either. B/c if you cave into it too quickly, she will be her old cold self the next day!
If W tries to initiate ML, should I stop her cold? Do I ask her what her plans are to work on our marriage?
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
