I'll continue to GAL. And try not to change my behavior too much. However, she's making it difficult to be consistent.
Continue doing what works.
Originally Posted By: someguy1233
-The cell logs show she had a 20 minute phone call with possible OM yesterday afternoon before I got home. - I'm torn how to proceed. Part of me wants to do everything to blow the likely affair wide open. The other part thinks I should let it go as-is since he's moving across the country in January...
Ok I'm going to echo what Denver said earlier. Where there is smoke there is fire. I don't think that it is apprpriate for a married woman to be talking to another man as much as your W does and it's really an issue if she doesn't tell you that she is talking to him. You don't have proof of an A so as Denver said keep monitoring. At some point if the two of you begin piecing you will have to bring up what you know about the pic and the calls but timing is everything and this is an issue that should not go unresolved. It will do you no good to just bury it you need the truth and if she says to did have an A (I really hope this is not the case) how are you prepared to handle this?
I'm not trying to rain on your parade but I want to honestly think about how that would affect you. Keep up the good work and remember to take it slow bud.
Thanks, Leo.
I continue to monitor. I don't know what else I expect to see. The behaviors has been consistent the last couple months.
I'm prepared to deal with A.... One last time. This would be the second, and last, that I would put myself through.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
