Yes, everyone seems to have their own definition. For me, and I think it probably comes from AlAnon, it means simply not engaging in the tug-of-war. You aren't necessarily off the playing field, you're just not taking part in the conflict, engagement, interaction.
Completely detached.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
