I think it is, Grace. I've stopped dreaming of my H. Before I detached, I was having all kinds of distressing dreams about him; ones where he was leaving me or treating me badly. These dreams were new for me as I had never had that type about him prior to BD. In fact, I rarely dreamt about him. Life was without trauma before that day.
I've stopping dreaming about him now and I'm glad. At least I got a reprieve from the stress at night. I'm happy for you. You deserve some relief. ((((()))))
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing