But the reason for putting the text the way i did was that i know she wants to talk about the marrage
How do you know this? You have very little communication with her.
Stay away from relationship/marriage talks unless she brings it up! Your goal is to try to be a friend that she wants to spend time with. You need to just have some fun together for now.
Unless YOU want D. If this is the case give her an ultimatum, which will force her one way or the other.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
