Thanks for the support Tori. I love your quote yesterday about the adolescent quality of their confusion.. and our need to let them find their way.
Afa, thank you, I will look him up.
A question today for my DB buddies:
Last weekend, I started having very painful dreams about my W (leaving and being replaced by OW) and would wake up feeling really upset. (I had not had those type of dreams for quite awhile and as I have been feeling better lately I was really surprised by them.)
The last two nights, I have had dreams in which she is present and we are not together.... but there is not the emotional upheaval in my heart that there was the first two nights. Last night's dream had me not wanting to be where she was and instead being involved in a fashion show (so unlike me) on my own and being okay with it for the most part..
Has anyone else experienced this in their dreams... a shift? I am wondering if it is part of detaching.
Thanks, fellow DBers...
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13