I have made it very clear to her that she will not get to keep this relationship with me.
She has also now told me that at this point in time, she cannot enter into any kind of relationship with OM anyway.
She is insisting that nothing physical has ever happened between them and at this point I dont have a reason to doubt her with all the info she is offering up.
Now I am also hearing her talk about OM's negative aspects like she is comparing us in a checklist or something!
I dont know where all this will end.
The seperation will do us both good in a lot of ways I feel. It will either give us the kick to work things out or it will reinforce her view that the marriage is over.
Either way, I need to be prepared for the outcome.
Im certainly not giving up on the marriage at this point though.
