Another Tuesday, another meeting, at least that what I think. We talked last week and I finally asked about the OW, he said they were not in a PA and have not been for a while. He never denied the EA, I know they are playing on line games. He never said he would stop and when I asked him to not text her or play games with her while at home, he said ok. Never denied he was doing it and never said he would stop.

I asked him why he came home, he said because of me. But then he said that OW had opportunity to leave and be with him and she did not take that opportunity, OW husband came back home and my H came back home. H said that OW was not going to leave her H. So should I be thrilled that she is not going to leave him or sad because I was second choice. How can you work on a marriage if there is OW involved? He really is playing us both. I wish I had the financial stability to leave.


M-47, H-46
M24, T29
S19, S17
OW since 2007
Fighting ever since
H left 8/12
H home 11/12
still seeing OW