Ha! Itchy butt Theorem. That's pretty good. Unfortunately this is a pattern with my husband and have I noticed it after we have been intimate. So again I am pulling back, being pleasant and I am going to be scarce the rest of the week. Sometimes it feels like a fine line I walk trying to nuance this. I don't want to be like I was which was angry and sad at the hurts he threw at me, but I don't want to be clingy and needy either.