New to the forum, WAH 10/3/12

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So, H left me a check with explanation. $600 for C/S, $200 he borrowed, $700 for Christmas. He told me when he started process to withdrawal 401K that he would half it with me. I KNOW $700 is not half. In his last statement there was a little over $28,000 in the account. So at best, I would guess after paying taxes he should have approximately $10,000 and thats allowing him to lose $8,000 and 50% taxes. I don't want to push to hard, since he didn't mention my 401K or retirement in our divorce settlement, but it really hurts that he is lying. Why even tell me he would half it with me when he wasn't planning on it the whole time? I just want the lying to stop!!!!! I did screw up again and send him a text when I saw the check .... it said "So you only got $1400 from your 401K?" I haven't heard from him and that was at 9:20pm CST and it is now 8:33am CST. Of course, he'll say he didn't get the text. Which seems to be a pattern with him. He says he doesn't get all my text, or he does and sometimes it will be days later. Reminds me of selective hearing....