I lost my focus trying to please her and need my mojo back.
Don't worry you will get your mojo back. I think as long as we don't get bogged down in the depression/anxiety/anger/resentment phase, we will all get our mojo back. Just remember this is a long journey.
Yes thats the tough part, healing and letting go of the anger. DB techniques sure go a long way in the healing process. Just like happiness and love is a decision so is forgiveness. I will forgive my W eventually. Right not the emotions are just to raw. I am naturally a forgiving person, my W will hold a grudge forever. I will let go of all these negative emotions whenever my mind releases it (if that makes sense)
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
