SB, its hard to conclude that working two jobs, a full time and a part time will make life easier. He might have more money but he will have no time and will be physically and mentally exhausted.

I challenge you to see a pattern you have of looking at an event, assigning a meaning to it that might be a stretch, and then getting upset about that meaning. You have a full plate already I would try to train yourself to avoid this type of thinking if at all possible.

I'm very sorry you are feeling so badly and I do wish your H would reconsider, he is making a huge mistake.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015