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[Big Bruce]

Hello all,
I realize I came across as manipulative, ie only wanting my son in order to woo my W back.
It is not the case.
I have so much I want to teach him, share with him. I love him so much. It's not just a duty, it's my pleasure, my honour to do it.

I've had an excellent father while growing up, and still have him. We shared so many activities together.. He's been there to support me when I needed, to help me out in a bind, and even now, he doesn`t falter.
The other day I woke him up at 3am in the morning, and he patiently took time to listen and pray with me.
That's the kind of father I want to be for my son. That's the reason why I won't give up on that counter petition.

I came to understand, a while ago, that my W could leave me and file and even obtain D if she wanted. As sad as it is, some WAS never reconcile and even remarry. But my son and I, it's something for life.


If I sound like I'm trying to control the outcome and focus too much on the "W coming back" side of things, it is because the site is called D busting after all, and I put emphasis on that aspect, when in actual fact, it'll be, hopefully, an outcome, if ever, of having changed and set my priorities straight in life.

Pretty please, do not stop posting as I am very attentive to all your advice, and get just carried away sometimes, but I'm truly earnest in my attempt to make things right.