You know what ? Thanks for slapping me awake. Your message hit home. Really did. SO accurate.
I will not give up on my counter petition. My having my son every other week DOES NOT prevent her from working things out with me does it? Correct...but watch your tone elsewhere.. we told you to take things slow and make your son a priority. No one said to bully her or to be a jerk.
I have to be consistent with my message of being a concerned father. YES you do.
Tomorrow first thing in the morning I will send a message saying just that : the deal is not acceptable to me. I am sincere in my wanting to be a father, AND YOU HOPE THAT YOU TWO CAN WRITE/WORK SOMETHING UP YOURSELVES, will pursue my petition to have him.
If she means business about working things out with me AND not lose him, she'll move in. WHAT??? "If she means business"??? You think you are in a position to give HER conditions? No you are not. You missed the point again!...what is the matter with you?
You are now overtly using your son to blackmail her into moving back in with you. That's NOT concern for him; it's you manipulating her to get your way.
STOP FORCING HER TO BE WITH YOU....I AM ABOUT TO QUIT POSTING TO YOU...
There's absolutely no reason for her to be worried about me and my son, and the lousy deal is just a reaction she's having to the prospect of being legally obliged to give him up for such a long time, that's all.
AGAIN WITH THE ANGER & mind reading^^^^...You are NOT a victim! IF you want to show that you have changed, THEN CHANGE. This is YOU trying to control the outcome, again.
She he was born, she has not left him ONE day with someone else. I mean ONE day! Which never mattered to you before AND which you defended b/c you did not nurse him.... SO this^^^^ reflects far FAR more on you than on her. I wish you'd wake up and see THAT.
As for taking things slowly, yes, sorry guys, I just got ahead of myself, you know with the excitment and all. Sorry. You have to understand, months and months suffering, hoping, scrutinizing, analyzing every bit of response, and all of a sudden the words : I'll drop off the divorce... WOW!
But it was followed by a IF. AN unacceptable IF.
Back to work. I'll keep you informed.
sigh...
When you wonder what SHE SHOULD do
or what SHE will do or how UNacceptable HER conditions are to you...
then look in the mirror and ask yourself
"WHAT WILL YOU DO, TO BECOME A MAN ONLY A FOOL WOULD LEAVE?"
right now, you are not that man.
Wake up for real.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
