When the moment comes for you to possibly have that discussion with them, i pretty much guarantee that you will be stoic and almost unnaturally calm.
You will be ready in advance.
The tears will come when you don't expect them to.
That's alright though, because the kids Will understand and you will see more strength and resolve in them than you thought they could muster up.
Have Faith that you will act responsibly.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012