While I understand how there is concern that people get stuck and therefore do not move forward, I personally believe in honouring my vows. It was not a commitment I made to anyone else, it was a commitment I made to myself, when I said them.
For that reason, I will not date in any way that could be intimate.
I will and have gone out with people (male and female) for dinner, a movie, what have you. If that's dating in some people's mind, then so be it.
So as I said, I simply will not be intimate in any way with anyone until I am divorced.
