I have a question for anyone brave enough to answer it. I broke down and asked the W for sex. I have been so lonely for physical touch and I refuse to cheat on anyone. She said she will think about it but probably yes. She needed to check her schedule first. I didn't put any love or affection in the request, just sex.
Is this a mistake that will bite me in the backside, or is it OK as long as she agrees?
Bad move in my opinion. It will only get your hopes up, it won't change her mind.
Do you really want pity sex? It doesn't make you look strong.
Don't trade your goal of having a full time wife back for a few crumbs of sex. You want her to come back because she wants you, not because you cried and she felt sorry for you. That will never work long term.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
