Are you Dating?

[brokenheart71]

I think this is an interesting topic for several reasons. My h only moved out a little over a month ago but I do already feel lonely. I think that is partly because he has not paid a lot of attention to me for a year or more (especially the last 6 months before he left). He kept saying it was because he was really busy at work but now says it was because he wasn't/isn't in love with me. It is sort of a double whammy - I was playing the loving dutiful wife thinking that he was out there working hard to provide for his family and all of our future but that just wasn't the case and now my future is without him (according to him). I have also learned That my PLL is words of affirmation and quality time is 2nd. I haven't gotten those for a long time. Now I am not saying that I am thinking of dating soon, but like I said, I do feel lonely. I know that the answer to that is GAL and focusing on me and my kids and not dating.