Tumbling its good to see you back commando style! :-) :-)
If you are at your wits end then I guess there is not much else to do but go ahead and file and send a message to him (email or voicemail...esp since he won't answer your calls)
Since you are deciding, take your time to make decisions that are not reactions to him but responses to what you want and need to move forward. You are in charge of this picnic my sister!
((( ))) sending you hugs and love!
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home