My suggestion is to not say anything about the marriage. It will scare her away.
Keep it light and friendly. Let her know you look forward to talking with her and maybe mention something cool that's going on in your life now.
There are cool and exciting things going on in your life now, right? You have to live your life, you can't just wait around for her and expect she'll be delighted to come back.
The goal here is to get her to chase you!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
