If you want to give your marriage the best chance of surviving, and ensure you don't have regrets even if things don't work out, you should give her more time. No need to rush things unless you truly can't take it any longer.
If you're getting antsy, it's ok to start planting seeds that you don't intend to wait forever. As always, monitor results.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
