Tumbling, I agree with SS that from now on, all the comm will be through your L. No need to email him or call him anymore. I would send him a message saying that he needs to change his address so his mail does not go to you anymore. If he doesn't do it, it's his problem.
I know this is what you want, but it'll still be a tough road. Be patient and kind to yourself, and continue GAL'ing.
