OK, you got it off your chest. Now DO NOT say anything about it again!! She knows and she'll remember. You don't have to keep reminding her of the convo. Now would be the perfect time to show her you're serious about what you said. Put the plan into action. Lovingly detach. Give her time and space. Remove ALL pressure. No snooping. No talking to her friends. No talking to family. No asking anyone to intervene. Leave her alone! Spend your time reading DR again. Make a list of your 180's and read it every day. Stick with it.
