Denver, I thought I would stop by and check out your situation. You've been thru a tough couple of years. I can see you're in the early phase of Piecing. It's a tough, emotional place to be. The R doesn't have it's "feet on the ground yet." I'll check in periodically, and help when I can.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."