Around 14/11/2012 I realised that I have done all I can to rebuild my marriage and that I have no energy or interest any more. That I only live once and that being miserable was never part of my life plan.
Well kudos to you for trying this long!! I can certainly understand the need to drop the rope after that length of time.
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Going commando?
As soon as I read the title I had a picture of you running around naked, had to pop in and see what that was all about, LOL!
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I want to get this show on the road but I don't know how to. Well I do but I feel bad about sending him an email stating the facts. BUT I don't want to see him as he may be expecting some other conversation and he probably won't show anyway. And he doesn't answer his phone when I call.
It sounds like you're at your wits' end. Since he's being stubborn about answering/ responding I would be inclined to go ahead and file and leave him a voicemail and email that you've done it and he can expect to be served shortly.
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Sat: he text me saying he needed to come over to the house to collect his mail and if I didn't want to see him, could I tell him when I was out. Which I did. At the time I was shaking and feeling vulnerable. Petrified he would turn up when I was in. He didn't collect his mail on Saturday.
In the spirit of dropping the rope, I'd start marking all his mail with "return to sender, no longer at this address" and stick it right back in the mailbox.
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do you think email is cowardly?
If he doesn't answer the phone then no, it's not cowardly. It's about all you can do.
