I don't know how to have a relationship with him where the effort isn't all coming from me.
He didn't call or send a card or anything for my birthday. Didn't hear anything from him except a couple links sent by e-mail to stuff that isn't even interesting to me until I called him for Thanksgiving.
Never did get any kind of acknowledgement/apology about missing my birthday. Got a guilt trip for not calling more often. And got to listen to him complain about everything for 20 minutes.
I don't even want to talk to him because all he does is complain, but I do because I feel obligated to. But the passive aggressive comments and guilt trips about not calling more often really discourage me from calling more often.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
