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Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride JuneReN #2304668 12/04/12 06:31 PM
Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 435 S someguy1233 OP Member
OP someguy1233 Member S Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 435	Thank you all for your posts, Denver, Labug, Ruby, Sandi, Leo. I appreciate everyone's insight. It seems the general consensus is I need to continue doing exactly what I've been doing... GAL, act AS-IF, and continue spending quality time with her. I'll continue to GAL. And try not to change my behavior too much. However, she's making it difficult to be consistent. Prior to her stating she wanted to be married she would avoid all physical contact. Now she's initiating it every once in a while with the dancing, cuddling, and occasional hug/kiss. Yesterday was day 1 of W not working. When I got home she apologized multiple times for the house being a mess. Our son's toys were everywhere. I explained to her that I don't care and I understand it's not going to be easy at home with S every day. As long as they're happy, the house can be messy when I get home. It only takes minutes to pickup toys. -The cell logs show she had a 20 minute phone call with possible OM yesterday afternoon before I got home. -Last night we danced silly club style in the kitchen. -When we went to bed she said, "Goodnight, baby. I love you." I responded "I love you too." She then softly kissed me. I waited a moment and couldn't resist...I kissed her again. (I wish I hadn't done this.. It could be pursuing too early). She snuggled close and stroked my hair/neck as she fell asleep. -When I left for work this morning she gave me a hug and a kiss on the lips. I'm torn how to proceed. Part of me wants to do everything to blow the likely affair wide open. The other part thinks I should let it go as-is since he's moving across the country in January... M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done

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Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/06/12 02:45 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/06/12 02:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	AnotherStander	11/06/12 03:58 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	2chiquitos	11/06/12 04:14 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/07/12 02:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/07/12 06:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/08/12 02:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/08/12 03:49 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	AnotherStander	11/08/12 04:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/08/12 05:50 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/08/12 07:56 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/09/12 02:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	NickB	11/09/12 02:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/09/12 02:56 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/09/12 03:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	littleGTO	11/09/12 05:16 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Bestgal	11/12/12 03:06 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/12/12 03:00 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/12/12 05:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/13/12 12:33 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 03:17 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 03:37 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 11:57 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/13/12 01:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 02:20 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/13/12 02:20 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 06:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 06:24 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/13/12 10:57 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/14/12 04:06 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 02:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 02:17 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/14/12 05:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/14/12 06:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 08:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 08:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 02:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 03:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 04:02 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 05:09 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 06:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 06:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 08:33 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 09:07 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/16/12 02:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/16/12 03:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	eyesopen	11/16/12 03:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/16/12 04:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/16/12 06:27 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/16/12 07:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/16/12 07:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/17/12 03:33 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/17/12 09:49 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/17/12 10:48 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 04:46 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/18/12 01:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/18/12 01:42 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 02:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/18/12 02:50 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 09:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 09:17 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/19/12 10:45 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/19/12 02:41 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/19/12 02:47 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/19/12 04:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/19/12 10:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/19/12 10:28 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 01:03 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	MKB23	11/20/12 01:01 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 01:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 02:06 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 02:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	MKB23	11/20/12 02:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/20/12 02:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/20/12 02:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 03:00 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/20/12 03:06 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 02:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 02:35 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 03:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/20/12 04:06 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 06:35 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	MrBond	11/20/12 07:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 07:36 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/20/12 08:48 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/21/12 02:25 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/21/12 03:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/26/12 05:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/26/12 05:57 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/26/12 06:00 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/26/12 06:50 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 02:12 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 02:30 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 02:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/27/12 04:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 04:54 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 01:44 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 07:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 11:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:49 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 07:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 08:48 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/28/12 09:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 11:05 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 02:24 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/04/12 02:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:32 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:30 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:24 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 02:52 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 03:11 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:12 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 07:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 11:16 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 02:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 02:37 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/29/12 07:34 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 08:07 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 08:12 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 08:20 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/30/12 01:31 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/30/12 02:24 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/30/12 03:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/30/12 05:40 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	justjudy	11/30/12 07:01 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/03/12 02:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	12/03/12 02:37 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/03/12 02:54 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	12/03/12 03:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/03/12 09:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	12/03/12 11:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	sandi2	12/04/12 12:08 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	12/04/12 02:44 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	12/04/12 02:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/05/12 08:18 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/06/12 02:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/07/12 02:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/08/12 06:38 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/10/12 07:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/11/12 05:02 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/11/12 03:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/11/12 04:05 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/11/12 10:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/12/12 03:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/13/12 04:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	eyesopen	12/13/12 05:34 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/13/12 11:26 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/14/12 02:36 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	AnotherStander	12/14/12 04:07 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/14/12 09:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/17/12 02:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/17/12 10:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/18/12 11:59 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/21/12 11:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Michele Weiner-Davis	12/23/12 04:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/30/12 08:51 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/04/12 02:58 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/04/12 03:02 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/04/12 06:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	12/04/12 08:42 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/05/12 08:03 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/05/12 08:01 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 02:14 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/16/12 07:16 PM

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