But agan, it's hard because I don't see him in turmoil, I see him cool, calm and happy with his decision.
I just wanted to say that this, like many things in our lives right now, is a no win proposition. On days when my H does seem troubled by his current choices I feel "was life so bad with me that you would rather be living like this?" And if he seems happy I just get mad and wonder how he can just move on so easily. And when I asked him about Christmas gifts for his family he said he would buy them. I was hurt and mad, he has never bought gifts. But if he wanted me to do it I also would have been mad, thinking he still took me for granted. As hard as it is, I really think you (we) have to work on not even thinking about H - any thought of him will end up negative. As many wise people here say - focus on YOU and yor D. I am sorry you're going through this. I hope you can enjoy the holidays with your D. I would ask her what traditions she wants to continue with just you and maybe come up with some new ones together.
Brokenhesrt71 Me 40 (for a few more weeks) H 41 M 18 years Ds 12 and 8 BD #1 12/09 R 2/10 ILYBINILWY Sept/12 He moved out Oct/12
