soul.searching, There is no need for you to leave the board. You are still going to need advice and support as you go through a divorce (if you opt for that). Also, mlc doesn't stop w/the divorce because the spouse is still in mlc and will try the patience of JOB. They are not like normal people who go on their merry way after a divorce. They are still emotionally tied to us and will continue to "knock" on our doors periodically for attention. As a wise elderly lady told me long ago, you will never totally get rid of an mlcer until they are 6 feet under". They are just like children who are a part of you for the rest of your life or the mlcer's. Funny, I can totally relate to that one.
Do what you must to save yourself, your family and your financial assets. If he is meant to return and become part of your family once again later on, God will show both of you the way. For now, God has other plans for the both of you...
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
