Looked the Gift Horse in the Mouth

[Soul.Searching]

I know that post was not to me but I want to thank you for posting it Snodderly. I've often felt around these boards, that people are looked down upon for " Closing the door" too early and not fighting long enough for their marrage.
Also not loving unconditionally.

I think I'm coming very close to closing that door. I was actually thinking I would probably just leave the board when I do. I'm thinking closing the door may very well be my New Years resolution.

I think it's what I may need to do, to protect myself and my children. I honestly can not believe I haven't already, concidering he has done so much that I would have considered deal breakers. I need to be true to myself and I don't know that I can take him back, after all he has done and still be true to myself.

Sorry to hijack the thread. I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciated hearing that.