Here's a hug((())) because you are going through very difficult times right now. Dealing with kid issues with little of no support from the other parent is tough.
Now, what can Melissa control? Here's where I see you getting off the path. Your H has a real problem be it untreated depression and/or drugs, whatever it is, it belongs to him. Yes, you need to interact but only when absolutely necessary.
And at this point in time, your children need your attention. You H doesn't need or want it. Remember, he fired you.
I have no idea what is going on with H and really could care less. Sadly I am moving into the ambivalent column. That;s bad because I realize how detrimental ambivalence is.
Why is ambivalence about him a bad thing?
I don't think you're ambivalent, I think you're hurting and that's OK to admit.
It's none of your business what's going on with H right now. That was a hard lesson for me.
Again he's fired you from that role. And I know as the father of your children is affects you but only as much as you let it.
Detach.
You can do this, Melissa.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
