Hi Trainthruhell, There is a saying over here: ‘If you find yourself in hell just keep on going you will finally get through it’.

Sorry about your circumstances, but you’ve come to a good place for help.

Can I ask does your wife take meds for her bipolar condition?

My late Dad was put on Priadol (lithium salt) way back in 1978 and it made him more stable.
But occasionally he could fly off the handle.

Love
Delboy