Perspective is an interesting thing... You see I had to re-activate my facebook to get in touch with a friend, and I thought if I read the conversation log between me and my X it could give me some better perspective about the whole situation leading up to BD.
While reading the things I wrote, at least a couple of times I told myself "you idiot!" LOL
I will continue reading, b/c now in hindsight when I'm not IN the situation, I think it can be helpful in seeing my faults in communication.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.