Wendylon, I have two comments: 1. Are you completely sure your H will not have his finances in order in Jan? I mean, 100% sure? If not, then think maybe he will, and express confidence in this. If he doesn't do it, then ask yourself if this behavior is a deal breaker. 2. You wrote your reasons to not get D. I think the most important reason should be that you're in love with your H and want him in your life-always. All other reasons-children, finances, etc. will not support a healthy marriage. At least that's my take on it. I know a lot of people stay married bc of other reasons, but I doubt they're happy. You don't have to live an ordinary life. You want to be happy and live and extraordinary life. Some food for thought.
Hugs to you, my friend. Thank you for visiting my thread today!
