MLC, affair, internet pictures, we're a mess

[cantslowdown]

No, she hasn't regularly had opposite sex friends. I believe she would lose her job (and subsequently not have any type of good recommendations for a future career) because even though he is old enough, it is still an unethical situation. He won't be out of here for another 2 1/2 years.

I feel that I may end up having to be patient until then unless a miracle occurs and her point of view towards me changes. So that'd be a full four years of me being on the outside (if she doesn't leave before then). That's a long time of putting up with "friends." At the same time, though I feel like sticking around is the best thing for my kids no matter what I go through (and if my wife finally comes around, all the better!).