Well, yesterday we didn't get the tree up due to having an old friend come pick up another Harley, so he can work on it with me to get it running and spiffed up to get it in shape to sell.
My son has been exceptionally affectionate with me lately, but he and I always have been that way, ever since he was born.
W still hasn't called or shown up at S-9's karate class. That's all i will mention about her.
I think i am making personal detachment progress, but i have been so stuck with oneitis for so long it probably is harder, since i didn't start doing this 3 years and 3 months ago.
I guess there is no reason to get any feedback since W is so completely out of contact, so i will just keep journaling my status and hopeful growth towards independence.
Ed
Originally Posted By: Am I Too Late
Originally Posted By: leopoldstotch
Ed think about this saying and its for you not your sitch. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. Lots of advice given in your threads snd most of it ignored.
Leo, i felt that i was making progress, by doing some adult things with others and trying to detach by not making any contact unless related to our S.
So, from an outsiders opinion, are you saying i have not improved on following previous advice?
I was really thinking i have made some minor progress. Baby steps can learn to take bigger steps. Thanks for stopping by too. It helps.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012