sigh. I'm throwing it out. I don't know what her intentions were leaving it lying around (if she had any at all) and I know the fight is still the same right now, she's not giving up her "friend" and I've made it clear that I find that hurtful (as recently as counseling). Since she isn't actually making any intentions toward trying to repair things between us, all I'll be doing is fighting another un-winnable fight in the same old way I always have.
I'm 33, she's 32. S4 S2 Married 6 years together 8 EA started Oct 2011 ILYBINILWY February 2012 EA turned PA (for sure)March 2012