Nero- this is what I wrote my mom: People are who they are and you except them because their family, good friends, good people, because despite their short comings, there is an overall reason to have them in your life.
Sorry, but I don't have room for her judgement when she offers nothing to lift a finger and was the result of some of the things she complains about. Oh, and she still to this day, hates that I was a stay home mom!
I would rather deal w/h I can tell him to go to hell and he would ask, when!
I know you can't trust your h, he may never earn that again. But, one day you will find that others don't have to pay for his mistakes.
Every pot has a lid, I think mine flew out the kitchen window, but I'm going to get one that fits eventually, and so will you.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
