Well we have had major trauma/drama since I was last here. I was at work on sat. Kids seemed okay. I headed home (it's about an hour drive) and stopped to get dinner. Next thing I know kids called police are there arresting s14. Apparently he had been out in the woods with his sister (had a rifle) also most of the area around our home IS wooded we are in the natl Forrest park area - anyway over the hill and through a field is a store- literally we can see it from the house. He sat outside d11 went in and bought one of those monster drinks. While he is sitting on the bench he realizes the gun has a round chambered. So he goes to unload it and it goes off. He shot a hOle straight up through the eave of the store. Apparently then he spoke to the lady that was working apologized and he and D11 left thinking it was over. So they walked home. Come to find out they called the police and he was arrested on a first degree felony of wanton endangerment. Apparently our neighbor (we have a prob with) told them S14 was shooting at cars and just shot into the store. Evidence is showing that is all lies but in the meantime until the state attorney can look at it and decide if he should be tried as an adult he is going to stay in jail in juvenile detention facility. At this point he will be there until the 12th before next hearing.
In regards to H he has taken absolutely no responsibility for giving s the gun. In fact quite the contrary. He has been hard very hard on s telling him not to listen to me. Refuses to see how anything he did us impacting this. While I absolutely am livid with s for this h enabled it by giving him the gun out of guilt. Also on the h front- he lied to cops gave fake addy and phone and has just been a real jerk. No shock there. He has actually been there and very living toward s in other ways. The jaded part of me thinks it's an act. I dunno. I look at him and even seeing him pisses me off. This is so stupid. All of this- fall out from the h situation. Did speak with county attorney today even spoke about protection orders. He is same one that helped me have h involuntarily committed a couple years ago said it would be no problem if things start escalating. I suspect though H depression is back big time. I could be wrong. He still wants kids to come over there I say fine but he never sets up a time. Again I wonder if he is doing meth. Who knows. I just keep on keeping on. My step mother and brother driving from Ohio tonight going to go have dinner and stay at lodge with them. Probably the best to get away for a bit. That's all I know. Hope you guys are well. I'm hanging in there. Today has been rough.