Another: just quick update. Took your suggestion to heart. H sent me a text telling me he would leave me a check in morning. I ask if he finished mulching job. He answered nope, got to go back in morning. I just said, don't forget your cell # is released and you have truck insurance info. I'd shop around if it was me. Was that a nice reminder - I wasn't telling him what to do and wasn't telling him I was cutting him off. Just reminding him it was there to do.

Me: 41
H: 43
M: 21 yrs
DD: 15

1st bombshell: 2002 - 6 months
2nd bombshell/moved out: 10/03/2012
OW: 10/12/2012
Signed MDA & PP: 11/20/12; but not submitting
Confirmed OW living with H: 11/21/12