Originally Posted By: labug
Wow!

I think you're right to go slow.

She gave you a lot of good info. And you're right, you do have issues to work on.

What are those for you?

















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I've always been content staying at home, which W isn't. My list includes
-make plans to go out with her. Plan new activities. Plan them in advance to have something to look forward to.
-continue to GAL. This helps me break out of my habbit of staying in, introduces new conversation and people to talk with. These are things I could bring back home.
-stop talking about things W doesn't care about. Find other people with similar passions to hammer these subjects to death with instead of boring W.
-read. Follow current events. Follow politics. W loves these topics and it will also help me with my social akwardness. I'll have more things to talk to everybody about.
-help with S more in the night. Offer to assist if W is already up with him.
-don't just sit on the couch and watch TV because W asks if I want to. Suggest that we play a game, read a book together, etc.
-improve sex life when the time comes.


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done