trying to save my marriage Phase 2

[AnotherStander]

Thanks AS. I have not been able to locate your thread?? Was hoping to read up on your progress.

Part II is here:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...502#Post2296502

Looks like it's hit 100 posts, so I'll probably have to start a part III soon!

I guess when it comes to D - should it stay as she thinks "daddys moved out for a while" or should I tell her "daddy is not coming home".

I think it's important for DB'ing to always keep hope alive in your heart, and I also think it's just as important for the kids to have hope as well. So my personal opinion is that you shouldn't tell kids the WAS is not ever coming home unless it gets to the point of filing for D.

And I was the one who had to tell her he moved out so maybe if he wants her to know daddy is not coming home, then he can be the one to tell her?

WAS's seem to avoid discussions with their kids like the plague, so you probably don't have to worry too much about it.

I wasn't sure if I should take them down because of D tho but I have been tempted to.

Well it's your choice. But when W moved out I couldn't get them down fast enough, LOL!