Another stander,

First of all my IC is professional so why wouldn't I trust his advice. I try to pay for top-notch professionals. He has been doing it for many years. I do trust his counsel as he was able to repair my sister's marriage. So when he was critical of DB, I listened. I have since left him.

I am not being flippant about the advice, but I need to proceed with extreme caution here because I've given all effort to other programs and nothing changed. I have now read the book

You simply do not understand the current dymanic between my wife and I.