Salut! After thinking, I guess you're right. Rushing things like asking her out for dinner or even suggesting that she moved in with me would show too much clingliness, and that's a turn off.
So, how about an email saying that I accept the deal only because I want to save M, but reaffirming that I want to be involved in my son's life and suggesting an increase visit frequency? I can also ask that at my next visit, thursday, she show me how to change a diaper. Which I want to learn anyway.
As for being the man I need to be, no worries, I learnt my lesson big time (it's been 6 months now, so I had time to think about all the situations were I acted selfish and disrespectful, and regret it, and be ashamed of it, and want to change my ways).
In a sense, her bargain keeps things exactly as they are (visits for me, and possibility of divorce in her hands...). What would be a good time frame to be as bold as suggesting to go out together? (not that I want to "test" her sincerity...)
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012
