H took S13 and D10 for the night saturday night (his idea of a weekend is 1 night) he picked them up about 11:30am and he was taking them to his moms to make cookies, he guilts S17 into driving to his moms (45 min drive) so S17 and his GF go down there for awhile. At 4pm S13 texts me and says "I wanna leave" I say "why" he said "dad is being mean and he won't let me come home with S17 and GF" so I call him and he says he justwants to come home to HIS house, S17 even tried to get his dad to let S13 go home with him, he said NO.

Throughout saturday night S13 was texting me...was very upset at how his dad is treating him...he treats D10 like a queen, I assume because she never questions him...both our boys do.

He dropped them off at 7pm last night and they hadn't even had dinner...so I had 1 1/2 hours to make them dinner, have them shower, pj's on, brush teeth, dry D10 hair and get them in bed for 8:30 because they had school in the morning.

I noticed that he appeared a bit tipsy when he dropped them off, S13 said he caught him sneaking to the garagetwice to drink beer, but S13 said "he wasn't as drunk as he was last night" wtf?

SIL (H's sister) called me saturday night said that she had just left he moms and she felt so bad for S13 because H IS mean to him and he plays favorites between D10 and S13...is SIL the only one in that family with half a brain? Everyone else supports his every action, they dont see that he's not the same person he was...or maybe they do notice but dont have the ba!!s to speak up?

I have a meeting with my L tomorrow...should I ask for supervised visits?

M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending