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Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride justjudy #2304345 12/03/12 02:29 PM
Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 435 S someguy1233 OP Member
OP someguy1233 Member S Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 435	Originally Posted By: justjudy SG I am totally new at this,and so reluctant to jump in with advice but I just read the last few posts of your thread and can't not reply. You mentioned you are finding it hard to come up with 180s but then next few posts about who gets up in the night...there's your 180! Be first up to your son. Don't argue that she should ask for help if she wants it, just do it. Trust me, she will appreciate it. Getting up to children in the night is mind numbingly exhausting, mundane, repetitive, boring, and just plain hard work. Every mother feels taken for granted and wants more help with the routine stuff of life. Perfect recipe for resentment if she feels you are not pulling your weight...even if YOU think you are. Judy Thanks for posting. I think this is great advice. Even if W is up with S I can ask if she needs help. I can offer rather than assuming she has everything under control. M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done

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Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/06/12 02:45 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/06/12 02:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	AnotherStander	11/06/12 03:58 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	2chiquitos	11/06/12 04:14 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/07/12 02:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/07/12 06:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/08/12 02:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/08/12 03:49 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	AnotherStander	11/08/12 04:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/08/12 05:50 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/08/12 07:56 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/09/12 02:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	NickB	11/09/12 02:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/09/12 02:56 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/09/12 03:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	littleGTO	11/09/12 05:16 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Bestgal	11/12/12 03:06 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/12/12 03:00 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/12/12 05:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/13/12 12:33 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 03:17 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 03:37 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 11:57 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/13/12 01:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 02:20 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/13/12 02:20 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 06:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/13/12 06:24 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/13/12 10:57 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/14/12 04:06 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 02:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 02:17 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/14/12 05:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/14/12 06:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 08:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/14/12 08:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 02:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 03:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 04:02 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 05:09 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 06:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 06:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/15/12 08:33 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/15/12 09:07 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/16/12 02:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/16/12 03:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	eyesopen	11/16/12 03:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/16/12 04:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/16/12 06:27 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/16/12 07:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/16/12 07:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/17/12 03:33 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/17/12 09:49 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/17/12 10:48 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 04:46 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/18/12 01:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/18/12 01:42 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 02:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/18/12 02:50 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 09:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 09:17 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/19/12 10:45 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/19/12 02:41 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/19/12 02:47 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/19/12 04:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/19/12 10:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/19/12 10:28 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 01:03 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	MKB23	11/20/12 01:01 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 01:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 02:06 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 02:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	MKB23	11/20/12 02:13 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/20/12 02:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/20/12 02:23 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 03:00 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/20/12 03:06 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 02:59 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 02:35 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 03:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	ThisDayForward	11/20/12 04:06 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 06:35 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	MrBond	11/20/12 07:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 07:36 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/20/12 08:48 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/21/12 02:25 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/21/12 03:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/26/12 05:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/26/12 05:57 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/26/12 06:00 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/26/12 06:50 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 02:12 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 02:30 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 02:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/27/12 04:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/27/12 04:54 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 01:44 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 07:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 11:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:49 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 07:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 08:48 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	11/28/12 09:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 11:05 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 02:24 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/04/12 02:53 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:32 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:30 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:24 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/20/12 02:52 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/20/12 03:11 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 02:12 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/28/12 07:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/28/12 11:16 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 02:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 02:37 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/29/12 07:34 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 08:07 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 08:12 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/29/12 08:20 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	11/30/12 01:31 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/30/12 02:24 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	11/30/12 03:22 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/30/12 05:40 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	justjudy	11/30/12 07:01 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/03/12 02:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	12/03/12 02:37 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/03/12 02:54 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	12/03/12 03:08 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/03/12 09:10 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	12/03/12 11:19 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	sandi2	12/04/12 12:08 AM
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Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	labug	12/04/12 02:21 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/05/12 08:18 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/06/12 02:32 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/07/12 02:39 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/08/12 06:38 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/10/12 07:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/11/12 05:02 AM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/11/12 03:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/11/12 04:05 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/11/12 10:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/12/12 03:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/13/12 04:44 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	eyesopen	12/13/12 05:34 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/13/12 11:26 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/14/12 02:36 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	AnotherStander	12/14/12 04:07 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/14/12 09:15 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/17/12 02:46 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/17/12 10:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/18/12 11:59 AM
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Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Michele Weiner-Davis	12/23/12 04:29 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	Denver_2010	11/30/12 08:51 PM
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Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	JuneReN	12/04/12 03:02 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/04/12 06:31 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	leopoldstotch	12/04/12 08:42 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/05/12 08:03 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	12/05/12 08:01 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/18/12 02:14 PM
Re: Put your hands up; it's a wild ride	someguy1233	11/16/12 07:16 PM

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