oh and to answer the question, I fear being in a hostile marriage much more than a D - at least in a D I have the chance to start over... in a hostile marriage, it's just a death sentence...

Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page